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When Toasting Success…

 Don't Spread On The Butter

by Paul Gents

     We all like to receive acknowledgment for a successful task completed, so it's only fair to give praise when you see a job well done. However, remember when toasting success, not to spread on the butter!

     What do I mean by this? Well, it's important to give praise, when it's due, without adding that oh so nasty word - but. For the person who is receiving your praise will tune in to the words after the but, and forget the praise.

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     Cast your mind back, and I'm sure you can remember a time when someone has done this to you. Perhaps you made a good presentation at work, and afterwards your boss said something along the lines of "Well done Jones, that was a very thorough presentation, BUT I think that you could have used more statistics to push the point". Then you head off for the day and all the way home you just tune in to the veiled criticism.

     Friends can also deflate your feelings. "Congratulations on winning that race, BUT if Smith wasn't on holiday he would have beaten you". How do you feel now? Your success, which we all need to further ourselves, has just been belittled, even though maybe unwittingly.

     Having seen the effect that this does, what should you say instead? Well, try to reword the sentence, replacing BUT with AND. "Well done Jones, that was a very thorough presentation, AND I'm sure that we'll get the business". You can always suggest the use or more statistics at a later time. Or perhaps, "Congratulations on winning that race, AND if Smith had not been on holiday I'm sure he would have struggled to keep up with you".

     As a successful person you understand the positive effect praise can give you, so don't forget to use this positively with others, especially if you are in a position of authority over them

     Heap praise on people when deserved AND don't give them reason to concentrate on any negative points in their moment of success.

Paul Gent writes regularly in his blog, Everyday Success Tips. Here he tries to pass on information that he has read or heard that will make a success to others in their personal and business lives.

http://everydaysuccesstips.blogspot.com/

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ARTICLE BY KALEB JONES:

4 Seven Common Habits of Successful People

ARTICLES BY DENNIS HARTING:

4 It Starts With Our Thinking

4 Focus, Focus, Focus

4 The Parable of Faith

4 Criticism an Unfortunate Part of Success

4 Procrastination - The Silent Killer

4 Persist to Succeed

4 Bigger Thinking Leads to a Bigger Life

4 Stop Exchanging Time for Money

4 Deadlines - a Major Variable in Getting You to

     Take Action

4 Fear is Not Real

4 Pay Yourself First

4 Expect Success

4 Kickstart Your Life: 9 Ways to Revitalize

     Your Life

4 Dreams - A Lost Art

4 Success - There Are No Excuses

4 It Will Be Alright

Seven Common Habits of Successful People  Success usually doesn't come to people that exhibit poor habits, such as laziness, a gloomy disposition or attitude, or possess an unwillingness to learn. Instead, it is poor behaviors and practices that hold people back from achieving the success they want out of life, no matter how much they want it to happen. The desire to achieve success is simply not enough, meaning you have to match your desire with effort, determination, patience, and motivation.